Mother In Law Calls Multiple Times A Day
Best Mother In Law Calls Multiple Times A Day
Mother in law calls multiple times a day. What is bad is when the parent is not objective or has an interest in her sons marriage success. She ll call to ask whatchya doin ask what everyone else is doing and hang up. How can we get her to stop without causing a row. Morning calls night calls at work calls etc.
Don t get me wrong i adore my mother in law. Since the activities are on hold she spends most of her day calling me. If it isn t my wife calling her mom it s her mom calling my wife. I have counted as many as 48 calls in a 8 hr period.
My future mother in law calls us up to five times a day even when we tell her we re away. Unplug the phone or turn it off completely. Basically we are the only family my mother in law has. We actually lived with each other for about 1 year before getting married and multiple times i expressed my concern over the daily calls to mom.
The only times i am not answering the phone is at the times she is gone to meals and when the young and restless is on. My head nearly came off in one swipe. If she can t reach my husband she ll call the house then me and if no answer she ll start the cycle over again. Suggest to your mom that she call your grandma once a day when it s convenient for her and ignore the calls for the rest of the day.
I ended up having a c sec and my mil wanted to be at our house every day cleaning but mostly wanted me to rest so she could tend to my son. There are times when they don t want to talk and she calls again an hour later and they still don t want to talk. She has panic attacks and calls 911 on people walking down the street. Its clear the mother is jealous and not the wife who soon learns to dislike her.
This sometimes occurs upwards of 4 times a day. However i do i handle the problem the she calls everyday sometimes more than once asking how everyone is doing and wanting to talk to the kids. The kids are so traumatized by her we all shake when we hear the phone ring we spend most of our free time taking care of her she has robbed us of our lives for years. She has a list of times that i call and she still calls.
Who s fault is this being that the male son puts his wife in a spot. She is turning 70 and this is her 1st grandchild. When your grandma starts going on about how miserable she is how no one loves her and how she wants to die that is the signal for your mom to get off the phone. My mother in law calls us screaming 20 30 times a day.
She calls for no reason and if she has a reason it s not a good one to call for. Published on fri 13 jul 2012 19 09 edt. My son is 6 months old now and my husband is an only child and his father passed 14 years ago.